I notice among the sexes girls (in general) tend to like romantic ecchi hentai while guys (with exceptions) like the graphic hard core stuff. Is this because society tries to mold us to be so different sexually through stereotyping and marketing or is it more on a deeper psychologically level both genders gravitate towards different things?

Also how does each gender perceive the following??

- Anal (guys giving it, girls receiving)

- Vaginal

- Oral (both can give or receive)

- Bondage

- "Messy" kink = XXX extreme erotic

- "Soft core" kink = rated R classy erotica

- Cum facials (guy gives girl receives)

- cum body showers (girl receives)

- Tit fucking

- Snowballing(the girl holds the cum in her mouth then returns it to the guy when they kiss)

- Kisses after "cumming" in a girls mouth (but without snowballing)

- Hair pulling

- Use of nails

- Two or more partners

... etc

Also would you ever "try" some of the things you like watching? Just curious

Well, I love sitting down with girls under candle lit dinner and having a sweet night in followed by a romantic movie and then making love to her.

But i also have a very messy mind and have done almost everything in that list. But plain simple, everyone is diffrent and everyone needs/wants diffrent things.
I love S&M but my ex hated everything to do with sex! 12 months and only two short sex sessions. Anyone care to take a guess why we split up. lmao.

Anyway, I dont fully understand the question but. Everything in that list, I either have done or want to do.

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- Anal (guys giving it, girls receiving): Done, also had a girl who liked to finger my ass.

- Vaginal: Done (:D!)

- Oral (both can give or receive): I absolutely LOVE going down on a girl, as far as receiving goes tho... usually after a lil bit of it i start to bore and just throw her on the bed and devour her ;-)

- Bondage: Done, both tieing myself or her up, much fun

- "Messy" kink = XXX extreme erotic: anything that involves something that goes into the toilet, no thank you... but I love tossing a girls salad (Tongue in her ass etc.)

- "Soft core" kink = rated R classy erotica: Good ole passionate lovemaking... best thing there is!

- Cum facials (guy gives girl receives): eh, requires too much clean up

- cum body showers (girl receives): see above lol

- Tit fucking: done it, but.. well I like girls with petite tits, so thats usually not an option, just one ex has DD's so Ive tit-fucked her

- Snowballing(the girl holds the cum in her mouth then returns it to the guy when they kiss): I'd get sick

- Kisses after "cumming" in a girls mouth (but without snowballing): well, if she swallows it, then I'll kiss her, in my opinon if a girl will suck me dry, then she deserves a kiss!

- Hair pulling: would do, havent yet tho

- Use of nails: I fucking LOVE a girl to dig her nails in, I have scars on my back from 4-5 years ago, I bled profusely and fucking loved it!

- Two or more partners: 2 girls, yeah i'd do it, 2 guys... not really sure? I know I dont know any guys I'd be willing to "share" my partner with... Im VERY possive

Now I understand

- Anal (guys giving it, girls receiving)
Fraid Not, Always wanted to do it but was never allowed.

- Vaginal
Hell Yeah, I even fisted her once. She was rather chubby so I dont think she even realized lmao

- Oral (both can give or receive)
I've had head before, and i've certainly given it plenty of times (to females)

- Bondage
Tied myself up once or twice, it kinda gets scary after your balls turn blue

- "Messy" kink = XXX extreme erotic
Scat, Done! Piss Drinking, Done! Urethra Play, Done! Hell you know it, i've done it.

- "Soft core" kink = rated R classy erotica
Sex? Sure been there done that

- Cum facials (guy gives girl receives)
Only ever in her mouth

- cum body showers (girl receives)
Nope

- Tit fucking
Once :P was very fun :P

- Snowballing(the girl holds the cum in her mouth then returns it to the guy when they kiss)
No, I really wanted to do this but my girlfriend was almost sick when it went in her mouth (kinda funny because her brother reads this forum! LMAO)

- Kisses after "cumming" in a girls mouth (but without snowballing)
Hell YES!

- Hair pulling
YEP! God it feels so good when you're forcing your tounge up her vagina and she's pulling on your hair shouting, Dont stop!

- Use of nails
I've got the scars to prove it! Thankyou Penny!

- Two or more partners
No, Shame really because a girl offered once but my ex turned her down. Bitch.

* Girls I know tend to feel that those activities are degrading. I have no idea why, I suck at splicing psyche's.

**Again, I seem to be the odd one out, but most people I know tend to find cum disgusting.

I would like to think that anything that turns me on in a fantasy state would be something that I would definitely like to try given the opportunity.

This includes such generally "considered gay" activities like snowballing. If the idea of blowing a tranny turns me on, then obviously I would try swallowing their cum if I got lucky enough to be in a scenario where I actually was blowing one. And if I would go that far, why not try snowballing?

Really, it would depend on the moment, but there is nothing I wouldn't try as long as it fell into an area where I was deriving some physical or mental pleasure from the activity.

totaly agree with Jetbl, and as for ur curiosity Lola as follows:

- Anal (guys giving it, girls receiving)
loving it and also like to have some play donne to my bottom too

- Vaginal
obviously yes theres nothing as good as being all the way inside mmm

- Oral (both can give or receive)
i love it, for me it another way of intercourse, not just forplay

- Bondage
love the restraining both to me or to my partner loved it every time specialy when doing anal

- "Messy" kink = XXX extreme erotic
the messier and nastier the better, i presume this starts with candle wax, but my limmit would be around golden showers...


- "Soft core" kink = rated R classy erotica
yes normaly but after a while i need to spice it up with some new things

- Cum facials (guy gives girl receives)
oh one of my favorites, there is not a prettier sight then a girls face covered in cum, of course being a shemale lover i'd like to have one too, but haven't got one yet

- cum body showers (girl receives)
ok the only prettier sight then a girls face covered in cum is when she's all covered in cum, the rest is as the above

- Tit fucking
mmm loving it and thats one of the reasons y i like big titted girls, and also tit fucking usualy ends up with either a facial or getting her tits covered in cum so....logicaly

- Snowballing(the girl holds the cum in her mouth then returns it to the guy when they kiss)
yes donne it and it's a real turn on, makes me wanna do it all over again

- Kisses after "cumming" in a girls mouth (but without snowballing)
prefer the above but if she don't wanna share i understand

- Hair pulling
beutyful, doggy style hard fucking and pulling her hair so she can't get away, or when she's giving a blow job other then that i don't see a point

- Use of nails
very nice during extasy, i have a couple of marks on me too

- Two or more partners
haven't donne it but would love to try, so when i do i'll tell u

and yes of course i would try everything i'm watching, i.e. that turns me on when i watch it

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do you wanna fuck me first or shall i?

Now I understand

- Anal (guys giving it, girls receiving)
sure many times

- Vaginal
OFC

- Oral (both can give or receive)
just got heads but never gave

- Bondage
once

- "Messy" kink = XXX extreme erotic
hehe yes

- "Soft core" kink = rated R classy erotica
almost 5 times a week

- Cum facials (guy gives girl receives)
a lot

- cum body showers (girl receives)
never

- Tit fucking
2 or 3 times

- Snowballing(the girl holds the cum in her mouth then returns it to the guy when they kiss)
not yet

- Kisses after "cumming" in a girls mouth (but without snowballing)
WHY DO U EVEN ASK, OFC

- Hair pulling
nope

- Use of nails
yes i got 7 scarsss hehe

- Two or more partners
hell yeah i like it tried it 2v1(girls v guys) and once 3 v 3

-Anal:
Its on my to do list.

-Vaginal:
Yeah. It's great.

Oral:
I love eating pussy, especially when the girl moans.

Bondage:
Not for me.

Messy:
Sometimes

soft core:
not enough

Cum facials:
Also on my to due list.

Cum showers:
I like to see them, but i don't know if i would help out in one.

Tit fuck:
Another to due item.

Snowballing:
No, Nay, never.

Kisses after cumming:
We'll see if a girl ever manages to make me cum with her mouth.

Hair pulling:
It hurts

Nails:
BEST THING EVER!!!!

2 or more:
multiple girls, want to. Multiple guys... I don't share.

As far as why girls and guys find each differently appealing, it depends both on the person you are talking about and simply the fact that guys and girls have and never will see the world eye to eye. I used to watch porn with my ex, and while i used it to get going, she just liked to watch it like a movie. She took notes or something, I usually fell asleep. Strange.

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Probably due to the classic gender stereotyping, girls are encouraged to be emotional, guys are taught to repress.